I love Sauna and Onsen and in Europe such places usually are mixed gender. When I go to a Onsen here in Bangkok, naked guys try to make eye contact all the time. It doesn’t kill me and I don’t have an issue with gays but it spoils the experience and I can’t relax.
Are there any saunas or Onsen that aren’t gay hookup places or any that are mixed gender or where people behave and just go for relaxing?